So I could really use some help with my situation. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. As soon as I met him I thought he was my one. Well as few months in he got into it with his family and moved in with my family and my mom welcomed him on because he was always great to me. I soon made plans to move out with him because I didn’t want to live with my parents and we have almost been living alone for a year now. Ever since we moved into this house we get into fights what it feels like constantly but it’s more like once a month. He makes me feel terrible for starting the fight. I saw him flirting with a few girls on his phone and said something. He made me few terrible each time and I would always think after that I had a right to be mad! We would talk about marriage before and now he HATES when I even ask about it. He isn’t romantic with me either and he doesn’t buy me stuff except for Christmas. Not my birthday or even when we had our anniversary. What should I do?
The problem is you can’t really force him to get her out of his life, without paying a price in your relationship
Why don’t you stop looking after him and doing everything for him and see what happens then? I’m sure you would’t want a guy to be with you just because you serve him right?
My live in boyfriend has a woman ‘friend’ but he once was interested in her. He claims that he only sees her as a friend now but i just want her out of his life period. Since he knows I wont like it, he goes to visit her behind my back. At one point I tried to befriend her but with little luck. They continue their private friendship. I am fairly certain she does not want a relationship with him but only the favors she gets him to do like lend her money. I’m not so sure about him but he blows up if i even mention it? Should i leave? I would welcome any advice. This has gone on for 7 years. ( I’ve only known about the broad for 3)
I feel like he doesn’t love me anymore and he just doesn’t want to end things with me because I wait on him hand and foot and he got used to it
I understand how this makes you feel. I don’t think it’s a reason for leaving, but it does seem like she is very important to him, because he gets angry when you mention it. No one likes to be told what to do. So, to feel free from this cloud over your head, you’ll have to decide one of the two: Either you trust him completely and let it go (just trust that they’re only friends and nothing else is going on), or you don’t trust him and your relationship enough, which means you’ll have to end it to stop the constant doubt. These are the only two choices, as I see it. Not easy, but possible. What’s it going to be?
Hi I was friends with my boyfriend for a year but I always really liked him. We went to the same place undergrad and started talking this summer when I would come back to visit. He officially asked me out in September and we decided to try long distance. We would see each other 1-3 times a month and communicate everyday. He was always super kind to me. He’d tell me how much he cared about me and how lucky he thought he was. He is in the navy and was supposed to move farther away for school in January. I was supposed to go to his friends wedding with him New Year’s Eve. In December he started being even more flirty, sending pictures, and making plans for the night in the hotel room NYE. After the wedding I was going to spend more time with him and go back to his family’s home. I thought we were forming an even deeper question. I would tell him how much I like him and he would respond saying the same thing. A couple of days before he started acting strange. He called said I wasn’t his priority anymore, he didn’t care about me, and he didn’t even like me when he came to my house in November. He said it was all a lie and he just liked the emotional high from making out. Meanwhile he’d still been calling me babe and saying he couldn’t wait to see me and really liked me. Now I’m the one who was left heartbroken and hurt and blindsided by the break up. How do I get him to want me back or what do I do?